Look, generally speaking its too early for WAS to decide anything. You got BD in this March! Have you seen everyone's signature block? I myself got BD from my H in Oct, lived together like you did for 3 months until he told me he still wanted to leave. Then it took nearly 2 months for him to move out. Since the initial BD in Oct he hasn't once mentioned D, he still has the key to the house, still contributes money to cover our joint phone plan etc. It's been what 9 months and I still don't know where he stands but I won't ask or beg.
Like everyone says the only things you can do now is to give her space and focus on you. She's going to make some kind of move sooner or later. Let her decide what she wants to do.
Question: you said your W resents that you got nearly 50% pay cut. Why would she resent that unless it was your fault. Did you make a bad move at work that forced the company cut your pay? Or was the cut because the company was not doing well or are you a spender and kept shopping as you did before the cut? I did not resent my H even a little bit when he lost his job because it was not his fault and we both lived very frugally while he was unemployed for nearly three years. So I wonder why she resents you for that.
Happy 4th of July to you.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
