Husband has one foot out the door!

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First day of our physical separation. So it seems we are on a somewhat temporary trial separation, and will be talking again in a couple weeks. In the meantime, what am I to do? Accept some invites to be around him with the family, and remain busy?

I honestly can't see much happening between us in 2 weeks. My H did seems less stressed and less distant when he came home today. I think it is because the expectation is not there that we will be spending the evening together. There has been so much tension between us in the evenings, mostly due to his moodiness. I would be keeping busy, and giving him space, all the while he moped around the house, looking sad.

He wants to meet again in 2 weeks. What am I to expect will happen in 2 weeks? Should I ask him what the plan is for when the 2 weeks is up, ie/ are we re-evaluating?? I think his words were, that we could then "decide to see where this will go"??? I think being in limbo is bothering him as well. He does seem to want it to work out between us, and he said he really does not want to split our family apart. When he tells me these kind of things, how am I supposed to react to that? I do not want to seem to eager but want him to know that is what I would like as well.

He has mentioned a lot that he wants to be happy. Lately I can tell he is not happy. I don't think his unhappiness has to do entirely with me, I think he might have some other issues. I mentioned I thought he should do IC. How can things improve between us if he is not willing to do work on his end? I can change, and DB all I want, but I think there is also a problem on his end.