So if he can't come back to see them he might as well pay nothing. Makes perfect sense... Then started telling me the boys like him better because he is more fun and somehow that got him to that I should just give him the kids... He is off his rocker. I let him go on for a bit then started giving it back. Told him that he is pathetic and what sort of father doesn't help support his kids. He said he is so far gone he won't argue, no idea what that means. He said that I am too mad at him to agree to anything. I said I wasn't mad I felt sorry for him. Its true he is missing out on so much. I know I am being the best mother I can be right now. He can't say the same. I said I didn't know how he could sleep at night knowing what he has done to the kids. I am done. really just done with him. I am just not putting up with this anymore. He has no reason to be like that to me. It is on him if he can't see his kids not me. I will not take the blame for that.