I dropped my phone & it shattered a couple if weeks ago. It still works, but has issues. Our family cell plan is ending in Aug.. Because of that D21 bought our S's used Iphone & plans to get her own plan (H had been pushing for that, her to become more financially self sufficient & she has been slowly doing so over the last 6 mos.). After dropping my phone again yesterday, I mentioned all this to hubby in line at the store, just casual conversion.

So, H asked me, "Is D paying for YOU to have a cell after Aug."? I just said, "No", then "I guess I won't have one".
H chuckled & it was our turn to check out...so, that was that.

It's little things like that that dig the knife in deeper. It hurts, he knows D can't afford it (& shouldn't have to). I could buy my own if I could get a job...but I've only had one interview so far & didn't get hired.

Been struggling with crying & PMA since. I will lose close contact with H once the cell is gone. Maybe it's for the best.

Just so happens the plan ends on our 26th wedding anniversary.


H48 M46
T26 M25
S25 D21
10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S
10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away
H Done 1/13
H tells S he wants D 2/13
NO R talk since - nothing filed
We live together weekends