Wow, awesome! I'm so happy that you can feel the change in her. It's not strange to say you can "feel" the difference. We know these people deeply & intimately, I understand exactly what you mean...I've felt that "shift" in my own H.

You seem like you are doing fabulous at DBing, that it's working for you. That's so encouraging .
You are expecting a cold pattern after this closeness, that [censored], but you aren't freaking out about it. Perfect. Also her giving an inch & you not take a mile? Thats self control there, exactly what she probably needs you to do. Accept what she can give, but not ask for more. Not easy...but you did it!
Keep up the great work!

H48 M46
T26 M25
S25 D21
10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S
10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away
H Done 1/13
H tells S he wants D 2/13
NO R talk since - nothing filed
We live together weekends