Mtb, thats the perfect attitude! Glad you are seeing progress !! I'm just down this week...I go back & forth on what I think, how I see things unfolding, etc. I am seeing baby steps sometimes too (or at least think I am), just this weekend is tough on me. 26 years ago we conceived our son on a 4th of July camping trip. Thankfully, we are all together this holiday too.
Last night hubby asked me why I was so down. I got caught crying while cooking, he was outside working in the yard & came in unexpectedly. My eyes were red & he noticed. I said something like "just pms" to get him to leave it be. He said, "Your dad will be fine, you know. And he loves you".hmmmmm Then asked if I wanted a sweaty hug. I said yes to the hug, but didn't lean into him much because he really was soaking wet.lol
It was nice...but most of my crying is over our sitch, not so much my Dad (hes doing pretty good). H never thinks I cry over us (?). EVERY time he sees me down over the last 8 months, he always assumes its my dad or he asks "what's wrong"? Really? Probably just doesn't want to have a talk about the R. But really? Could he honestly be THAT obtuse?!
H48 M46 T26 M25 S25 D21 10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S 10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away H Done 1/13 H tells S he wants D 2/13 NO R talk since - nothing filed We live together weekends
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