Originally Posted By: kate's_place
Prometheus

Get out and exercise as well. Endorphins have been proven to help depression.

Thanks for posting kate's_place.

I started an exercise/nutrition/body recompositioning regime last September, and have been good at sticking to it. This has seen me exercising for 45 mins three days per week. It has not seemed to have helped my mood much....but maybe i need to exercise every day. I will try some more skipping on the days that i don't go to the gym.

Originally Posted By: kate's_place
I don't know about there, but here, while in house separation is legal, it is hard to prove. Any money she receives extra (for child allowance etc) can be asked to be paid back if the government decides that the separation was not really a separation. (My lawyer told me this, and it is hard to prove for alimony, child support etc)
So be careful there.

This is something that i am concerned about. I don't want to be lumbered with extra bills because we are being paid money that we should not be getting.

Originally Posted By: kate's_place
You may want to find out her reasoning for doing this first.

I am not sure what you mean here. Are you able to elaborate?

I feel like i am walking on eggshells over this. I don't want to cause any fights or trouble but i have to find out where things stand...it is hard to raise the matter when my W does not want to talk about it.


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014