Sub, I've been there so many times...just last week when H was here, he said something about a situation with his mom, I inserted a solution in a joking manner but I was still not really listening to him, end of convo.

2 minutes later I thought, I should have asked him what he wanted to do in that situation. My IC agreed.

I need to talk less, listen more.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss