It's that passive/aggressive stuff...it will getcha everytime!!
That is me as well, so don't beat yourself up. Sometimes I have to say "How would I talk/text/email H without being a byotch?" Because I really am not happy here....
That is the warning light not to talk/text/email at that particular point lol!!
I think it was Bug who made a reference to the fact that emotions are fleeting. You just have to wait them out