Hey, i got the ILYBNILWY speech. It took awhile, but after she started to notice the positive changes I made, she started telling me she loved me again. But then again, they say to believe nothing you hear and only half of what they do. The words are easy, but the actions are harder and I'm still waiting on more action on her part. But I keep seeing positive baby steps the longer I stick with it. Just stay strong and focused. Detaching is hard, but I am starting to see that once you realize most of this stuff is out of your control and just go with the flow, it becomes a little easier day by day. No sense in worrying about something you have no control over. I'm just trying to be the best I can be. That's all I can do. In the long run, I hope she realizes how awesome I am and we can be together 100% again.
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
