Hopefully the time and space will be just what our H's need right now. And actually, I think that it is also good for us to be away from them once in a while too. Dealing with them can be quite stressful sometimes and ends up making us hurt more. Maybe some space can be a good thing.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.