I need to change the Title of my thread to "Husband has TWO feet out the Door".
My H has just informed me that he is staying at his brother's apartment for the next 2 weeks. He says he needs "time and space", I think it is to think things over. I have been DB'ing like crazy at home, and giving him LOTS of space, however, when I DO see him, he just looks so sad and lost. He said that after 2 weeks we will talk again. AHHHHH... what on earth is THAT conversation going to go like?????
He is staying at his brother's for the next 2 weeks, and coming to my house after work to be with me and the kids for a few hours, then returning to his brother's apartment for the night.
He did say some positive things, like he really doesn't want to split our family apart and he wants us to work out. I was actually surprised when he said that he wants us to work out.
I went out to the back deck to read while he packed up his work clothes for tomorrow. He came out to ask if I was ok. Then he said, "I'm Leaving." I said, "Ok bye". Then he left and I started bawling when he was gone
I am wondering if I should stick around the house when he comes to visit the kids during the week. I suppose I should, since that is now my only time for him to notice my DB'ing.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.