I think my new favorite description is Linda's "immature petulant MLCer" - it is truly a thankless job putting up with them! Though I would think that those that do make it to the other side are beyond grateful that someone stuck by them at their worst.
You are more than welcome to join in the party, Libra Linda (and WH and anyone else who wants to turn that frown upside down) The more the merrier!
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Had a very fun evening with the boys. Our community center had games, hayrides, face painting, inflatable slides and food booths. The boys had a blast! I think H almost seemed relieved that we were going. Told us to have a good time.
When we were there, we saw his xbf's wife and kids. We said hello, didn't really have a chance to talk. Also saw that female co- worker that was at yoga and her family. Said hi to them as well.
Sometimes, H can be very predictable. I knew darn well he would ask me if I saw anyone we knew. And he did.
Of course he wants to know if they ask about him - always! The xbf's wife did not ask about him. The female co- workers H did - he and my H have hung out a few times. I told H that he asked about him, and he said "What about (female co- worker)?" Um, no H. Believe it or not, you are really not the focus of everyone's day!
I think part of him definitely tries to avoid seeing people when we are out. He has made the comment numerous times, "I hope we don't see anyone that we know." It's weird.
He seemed a little more relaxed when we got home. Said his stomach is still really bothering him. Lots of texting. Leaving him to his drama...
Hey, and happy anniversary to me. It was a year ago today that I joined here. I honestly don't even know how I made it through those first six months after bomb with basically no support.
The friendships and support I have found here are such a blessing. I thank each and every one of you for being here with me on this journey.
Keep on keepin on my friends
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
