chl0901... sorry you are going through all of this as well. It is good that you found this forum, there is lots of good advice in here, which I wish I would have read a lot sooner than I did.

DFE..I know it will be tough for you tomorrow on your anniversary. Keep busy and have a nice day with your kids! BTW.. I have twins as well!

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.