Specialk, The more you post, the sooner you will get off moderation.
I have been on the boards for two years.. and I've seen very few stories where the WAS changes her mind whilst living with the LBSer.
I don't necessarily think it's impossible, it's just so much MORE of a challenge to detach when you have constant contact. And it's not until you really detach that your sitch can change.
Work on GALing, PMAing, Giving her space.. etc. Fake it until you make it.
And you can make it.. but you gotta give yourself time. Time to process, time to heal. Be okay with the fact that you aren't ok... but know that the only way to be okay is start living like you will be.
And once you are ok... then.. and only then.. a WAS might change their mind.
Keep posting.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
