Besides being the 2nd DR step, it is a significant skillset
The hardest thing for me as a moderator, or KLA leader-- is to get folks to say what they WANT in their relationship.
Can you describe what you want MORE of in your relationship?
On a GREAT DAY-- what is going on?
This is the hardest, and I would argue, the MOST important skillset.
As a woman --does it sound like a compliment about your looks --does it feel like Brad Pitt is seducing you in mr and mrs Smith? --is he doing some housework for you? --is he showing up like Mark Wahlberg with no shirt on
If you say ALL of the above, you have to go to McDonalds with no kids and sit it the playland with only a diet Pepsi for two hours because you are completely unrealistic.
As a Man --do you wish she would recognize your efforts, if so, how? --do you wish she would contribute financially -- in a significant or small way? -- do you wish she would respond favorably sexually? Does this also mean you wish she cared more about her physical appearance for you? Does this mean the way she dresses? Does this mean her weight? --do you wish she would initiate sexually?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
