...even though it has been awhile since I've posted.
You are the BEST of the BEST especially when it relates to marriage/relationship and skillset.
I'm wondering who is willing to work with Newbies related to DB skillset.
This does NOT mean you have to exemplary in execution (I'd have been outta here at the onset--anyone who knows me well knows that. Anyone who knows me well also knows I am dedicated to DB processes, Michele herself, and Virginia herself)
So the skillsets are (per Divorce Remedy,even though Keeping Love Alive is my personal favorite)
-Start with a Beginner's Mind This IS an actual skillset. The best of the best 'Begin Again', often, even if they describe it differently. It stops you from being stuck. Or gets you out of being stuck. It lets you learn things you missed the first time. It lets you learn the things about your partner that changed since the last time you checked in. It reminds you to check in again. It is NOT a setback. And yet, it can save you from a setback.
If you have a slightly Buddhist mentality, you get this.
I was raised Catholic. After my divorce, I explored other options. We are all not so different. The humility of this mindset corresponds with my Franciscan/catholic mentality. It also corresponds with my analytical chemist (pharma) mindset. We often start at the beginning in an investigation. I correct myself. We ALWAYS start at the beginning. It is required.
More to come
Any or all of the above (and if you do ALL contact Michele)!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001