I get what you meant about the filing now. Thanks for clarifying.
But please stop harping on last time I was here and move on. Ruminating in that forum, about thinking of leaving, was an exercise appropriate for that forum. Yes, I said some nasty things about my W and her attitudes and behavior. Those things are true. Not acknowledging them doesn't change them. I can only change my behavior in reaction to them, but it doesn't mean that they can't be put out there for discussion in an appropriate forum.
Sure, I should have been continuing on from the first time - if I was perfect.
