Obvious is right. That's a textbook DB situation. Thats why its so hard for us to compete with those OP. Right now, since I'm in 180 mode, I cant say that I can listen, because I have to give her space and not contact her. But it's one of the things I am working on.
You miss the entire point of DB by stating there's nothing I can do about it. There's a WHOLE lot I can do - by not continuing to do what doesn't work.
