"As for PON's wife and her bullying. I relate to it, as I see my h doing the same things. I just don't post everything."
I totally disagree. I've been following PON since the beginning and his W has done everything including carrying on secret affairs while they are living together. AND his W wants all his money without having to work. I really don't see how you think your situations are similar.
Your H has even been keeping communication between the two of you and has offered to help you on a number of occasions. PON has received none of that from his W.
Nowhere near the same boat.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.