H wasn't that into it. My mistake was seeing his actions as somehow being less caring, rather than just different. Now I would know how to negotiate and think about this in a much more open way.


Wow- this is so true--and I am guilty of this thinking too ( and subsequently fighting with H about it) I guess back then part of me thought less of him for it... How awful is that... It used to be so hard to just let people be--- and we made it Even Harder on those that we love the most.

Thanks for the highlight Bug- once again... Thinking.
And I agree with subguy- you don't let yourself stay in a funk and I admire that so very much.

Xxx

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home