Oh yes T, Virgo. Insert your best virgin joke here
I think it's important for the boiling point to get here without me turning up the heat, you know? Let FT yank on that leash she has him on. I'll be busy actually having a life.
Caigy, I thought about that same thing too. He has had issues in the past with the boys being closer to me. He once told me in an argument that was after bomb "I'm tired of playing second fiddle to you with the boys!"
I wanted to yell back at him, "Then maybe stop ignoring them so you can continually text on your damn phone!", but I refrained.
No matter what the boy's reaction would have been when he came home, the factor of his internal guilt was going to override everything anyway.
So you are right, Bea. He has to start to realize all the repercussions of his actions. Not an easy thing to do, I would imagine.
So UW... I should anticipate him to be tense, angry, and sullen? Hey, let the good times roll at my house! Lol!!!
He seemingly couldn't get enough of me and the boys before he left. Now, it seems to be difficult for him to be around us.
It does help that I understand it is not about us - not about anything we have said or done- but about his own internal unrest.
I politely invited him to go with us to the community events today, he declined. I had a feeling he would. I think this may be best today for all parties involved. There is really no reason for the boys and I to stick around here this evening and be part of the MopeFest.
And me and you... I see it now... Two green-eyed Italian gals swapping MLC and life stories as we talk with our hands the whole time. Look out people lol! Can't wait!
Off for some fun with the boys - will check in with you fine people later
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
