He's up to something. Mark my words. You said he hasn't responded to your civil actions, but he's conniving something. Watch your communications with this guy and document everything.
Watch your back! WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
MrBond & WH - Yeah, I agree. Keep as I have and watching my back. I didn't say anything that was unture or couldn't be proven so I am good. I always make sure my written communicae doesn't have anything that could be used against me. As far as him being up to something yes...I believe he is. After my post I actually took another step to protect myself because of something he said in the text...
Maybe I am just very alert or reading too much into things, but part of his text said "The tax returns will enable me to obtain said money to bring bills to current"...sounds suspect to me...so I froze my credit reports.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
B, I'm very surprised that your h didn't say "I'll give you the pool cues, if you give me the keys to my vehicle". They play all kinds of stupid games and you can't allow it or he'll continue to jerk you around and around.
I would be on my toes w/him. Something about the tax return doesn't sound right to me...but I'm always on high alert when it comes to mlcers and money.
Please try to have a nice Fourth of July.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Ha Snodderly...it seems that is how he is getting. Dare I ask something and I get a he wants something in return answer.
As far to the keys to "his" vehicle...well I gave him the keys to "our" vehicle and now OW drives the car around (learning lesson on that)....but he is in for a lot of wake up calls this month.
That car has not been paid for and the insurance is about to be cancelled in a week due to lack of payment. I hope that HoBag OW is driving in it when it gets repo'd and/or booted and towed. Should be fun to watch!!! It is gonna happen...just waiting my time...
Yes, I am going to have a fabulous 4th. Just made some plans about an hour ago to have people over for a cook out. Should be fun!!!
Everyone have a nice 4th as well!
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
That car has not been paid for and the insurance is about to be cancelled in a week due to lack of payment. I hope that HoBag OW is driving in it when it gets repo'd and/or booted and towed. Should be fun to watch!!! It is gonna happen...just waiting my time...
Are you tied to the loan on this vehicle? Please make sure they can't come back at you for the money.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
WH - I am...and sometimes there will be casualties. Taking my chances...besides with H not giving any money to me, I just can't pay everything.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
BNBR, our H's are so similar, right down to their robotic responses. They are totally void of emotion. They have a very skewed view of fairness and didn't count on the legal hassles that they are dealing with. I know my H thought our D would be smooth. He wanted to use a fly-by-night mediation service (the cheapest place he could find) and just assumed I would go along with his mapped out plans for support, division of assets/debts, etc. When that didn't happen the tantrums started. You're headed into a very difficult part of the L process. It may be what your H needs to wake up to reality. I don't have any advice other than make sure that your attorney has the ability to recognize a good settlement so it can get done. My first attorney wanted more for me than I wanted for myself or that the court would likely award me. Sadly for me there were a lot of missed opportunities. I just went along with it all, not knowing my better.
Continue detaching. Try not to see the legal part as personal and remember that any spew you receive likely has fear as the primary emotion. Your H's fantasy is going to come at quite a cost. As hard as it is you will rebuild your life. There are many examples on this board of others who were in a similar position, but made it through and are living full-filling lives now. Please take very good care of yourself This is so hard on the soul.
