Hi Tallula, I know what you mean about being the adventuring mom with the kids, at least once a week, we would take off with a packed lunch and off we'd go exploring.

H wasn't that into it. My mistake was seeing his actions as somehow being less caring, rather than just different. Now I would know how to negotiate and think about this in a much more open way.

Can you use your list as a starting point for a discussion (if you're at that point in your R)?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss