Hi Tallula, I know what you mean about being the adventuring mom with the kids, at least once a week, we would take off with a packed lunch and off we'd go exploring.
H wasn't that into it. My mistake was seeing his actions as somehow being less caring, rather than just different. Now I would know how to negotiate and think about this in a much more open way.
Can you use your list as a starting point for a discussion (if you're at that point in your R)?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss