Hey T, I am actually a Leo. Though I dont have a lot of the traits of a true one.

Yay! FY is taking us out! So cool! What a guy! Oh man, how much fun would that be?

Bucket list stuff right there. And not impossible. There are those of us who have gotten together and it's been a blast.

And T, your h is a mess right now. Best to get out of the way of what's coming. You dont want to spoil your party dress. smile

I never asked my xh what eventually brought about the demise of his affair. Hmmm, maybe I will someday. LOL!

From what he said, he just realized who she was and that it wasnt going to make it long term. Not sure what made the light bulb go off.

I disagree with Caigy. I think the lack of enthusiasm when coming home has the opposite affect. I think he's saying to himself, man, what the heck am I doing to my family - I am losing them.

T, I think it is going to get a little bit more tense with him. He is going to be a bit angry and sullen.

No worries though. We are going to be drinking, laughing and eating. smile