I honestly think that by the boys not running to him and hugging him, that In his mental mind that justifies his reasoning for everything "they don't need me or get excited to see me....but Hobag does". Just a thought.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending