Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

Your replys AS are so comforting! Thanks for sticking with me!

I believe I backslid last night, While changing my youngest diaper I walked by the mother of my childrens room and in a transparent garbage I noticed our wedding and photo albums.

I asked if she was throwing them out and she told me yes and that i should not be snooping in her house! arrgh. It was right there. I replied that it would be good for the children if they were kept so they can look at some of the good times mommy & daddy had before and during there early years.

From an outside view am i wrong in thinking that?

She has such a negative attitude every time im there. I feel she is trying to make it so uncomfortable that I will stop seeing the children. Im worried that the children can sense that mommy dont respect daddy so they might think less of me.

Its challenging to co parent this way. Should i request her to show a bit more respect when present?

I am giving her plenty of space, no text, no calls,no relationship talk. I had hope but expectations are now nil. Its been 7 months now and feel as hope is all gone.

If it hurt to see the photo albums in the trash I guess i am not fully detached..