Hwy, I'm very sorry for your situation. Yours sounds very similar to mine, but my BD was just a week and a half ago. My H is acting very similar to the way yours seems to be, and it is very hard "waiting around" in limbo while he can "do whatever he wants." At first, I tried to initiate ILY and intimacy, with no response and being turned down, which really hurts. He has also been looking at apartments and acting like I don't matter and every little thing I do annoys him. I have read Sandi's 37 rules and am trying to follow those now and also ordered DB, which should be here later this week. I hope the best for both of our situations.


Me: 27 H: 27
Together: 11, M: 3
S 2
BD: 06/24/13
Living together
H: EA - unknown current status
Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR)
Back and forth we go...