My IC had me write out what I wanted in a marriage. Many things on the list were things my H had as far as similar interests & hobbies, but as far a life...not so much. I like to take the kids and go exploring after work & dinner, hang out with friends. H had kind of retreated into a work, come home, eat, lay infront of the TV kind of guy. Looking at things objectively, I saw that if that is truly who he is and he is content that way, that is not who I want to spend my life with. Now that he is home...we rarely watch TV. Last night worked 12 hours, so I took the kids outside to play. He read in bed. But each night I'm surprised when he chooses to head out on an adventure with us.
Ah, sarcasm. I'm still a fan, but today it is more self deprecating that anything. \
So glad to hear you have your groove back! One thing that I have always felt has helped me in life, if my ability to laugh. I was gone in the first few months after DB, but it carried me through.
You rock BUG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
