Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

[AnotherStander]

First sorry to hear about your W health, that is tough and sounds like it is being seen early enough to deal with.

Thank you! There is a lot of breast cancer history in W's family, so even before her sister was diagnosed she was going for regular screenings. Twice before now those screenings resulted in biopsies. So she's taken it very seriously and I'm confident that it was caught early. Unfortunately due to the family history I'm sure a lumpectomy is not in the picture, she will no doubt be looking at a double mastectomy along with chemo and radiation. I'm sure she will be cured, but she is going to go through complete and utter hell first.

What she wrote sounds honest

I agree, it's inaccurate but it is what she feels right now. If she ever says those things to me I will just validate her feelings even though I totally disagree with it.

Dang AS, sorry to hear about the latest in your sitch. Keep us posted and stay strong.

I will, thank you