Hi TVS. I agree with UR, your H does seem to be turning a corner of some sort.
Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious
Hi Raine ~ you know, sometimes I think nothing can make these MLCers happy.
Right, and he may be starting to realize this. He has to do this before he can come back to you.
Is it wrong of me to find some satisfaction in the fact that his guilt is eating at him? Because right now, my compassion meter is on low. He's bringing so many problems on himself, and that is something I just cannot feel sorry for him about.
Maybe you don't find satisfaction in him being in pain as much as you find it in the fact that he eventually will see that OW is not the cure for the crises he is in. Nothing wrong with that!
Hi rH ~ selfish is certainly a good way to describe him.
We all look out for ourselves. He just doesn't have the capacity right now to care much about you or your feelings. Doesn't mean he never will though.
My birthday is at the end of August. I'm sure he'll be an inconsiderate a$$ as usual.
I'd love to take you out for your B'day! All the other ladies here are invited. Sorry, no other dudes.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
