AS- First sorry to hear about your W health, that is tough and sounds like it is being seen early enough to deal with. Second, What she wrote sounds honest and I say that as a lot of it is very close and even identical in parts to how my W feels. Snooping has caused me to loose weight, age rapidly, become nauseous and see truth that I would have never have seen other wise. Some amazing insight there. As I have been told, what they think can always change. About OM, yeah that always just hurts.
Keep on being the new you AS. I see opportunity and hope still.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy