This will sound so silly but while reading your last post two movies came to mind:

Remember in When Harry Met Sally... after Sally and her long time live-in BF broke up and then he got engaged to someone else and she realized he wasn't against marriage, he just didn't want to be married to her...

or

Remember in He's Not that Into You... at the end when Jennifer Anniston's character decides she would rather be with Ben Afleck's character married or not because he truly showed her he loved her.

Which kind of guy are we talking about here?

sorry to be blunt, but here goes? Is he "unsure of the whole marriage thing" or unsure that you are the right person for him to marry? (Look for your answer to this in who he is, not what he says)


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011