T, I am so sorry he didn't phone home to tell you his flight was delayed. That was so rude of him. But, that's how most of them are when in crisis...they just don't think. Sounds like this trip made his guilt a bit uncomfortable if he's itching and having stomach problems. Guilt has a way of working on the mind and body.
That is very strange about his friend stopping by and spending so much time w/him outside. Interesting that he calls right after he gets home.
I do hope today is a better day for you and the boys.
Again, I am very sorry that he wasn't "warmer" towards you and the boys upon his arrival home. What a jerk.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
