And thanks for keeping me grounded UW - it's certainly a full- time job lol!!!
Sooo.....
H told me yesterday when we spoke on the phone that he wasn't sure of his flight time, but he thought he would be home around 4:00 pm. He would call me when he was close to home - the airport is about an hour away.
Well, of course 4:00 came and went with no word from H. I was irritated to say the least. I made dinner, went on with our evening here. When it got to be around 5:30, I started to get really pisssed.
I thought - have some freakin courtesy a- hole!
He calls around 5:45. Said his flight was delayed two hours because of storms. I said, I wondered what happened, we were beginning to worry about you. He said he would be home in about 15 minutes.
Now this is where it gets interesting...
When he gets home, we are playing out in the backyard. He comes out on the deck to say hello. Says hello to the boys, who give him a half- hearted hello and keep on playing. He seemed - idk - a little put off by this? He says something like "wow, what a warm reception. Guess I'll go unpack." Which he did.
Not that he made any effort to go out to the yard to see or hug his children that he hasn't seen for several days. Jerk.
There was definitely zero vibe for a hug. And I'm talking on my end.
Comes back out when he's done, showered and in his jammies. He gives the boys their gifts, which they like. No gift for me, big surprise lol! S5 asked him a shark question, and H said he would go look up answer on iPad and be back.
Except he never came back out. Instead, he went inside to watch tv. Nice.
He has been scratching like crazy tonight. In his words, his itchiness "is out of control". Said his stomach is really bothering him too, has been for the past few days.
Of course some texting too. Looks like he didn't leave that at the beach lol!
He asked me how things were here. I told him all about his sister's visit. He was quiet. He told me a little about his trip. I asked a few benign questions about golf and eating seafood while he was there.
He gets a call on his phone from an acquaintance who wants to drop off something. When the guy gets here, H doesn't invite him in, and instead stays outside talking to him in our driveway for an hour and a half.
Bizarre!!!!
So no warm homecomings here. H seems pretty miserable if you ask me. I guess returning to reality life with your family svcks compared to living in a fantasy world.
I'm giving him plenty of space. Who knows what's really going on in that head of his. I know he missed the boys, yet he's acting so strange.
Yep Linda, I got that blender working overtime. Think I need some cheesecake too.
Can't wait to see what tomorrow brings
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
