Awww...... Man, AS I am sorry to hear that news...I always thought of our situations very similar...except you are the cool guy at the party everybody is happy to see:/ Our situations started about the same time, today I am at my 1 year of separation. In my darkest days you gave me a lot of encouragement and It really helped me out. My w also has OM who she still says is just friends usually after a couple of months they come clean but ours are not...that is a shame, I think....I wonder how OM feels not to be acknowledged? If I was OM I would feel like man she needs to tell the truth unless he is not that into the relation.
I do a lot of spying compared to you....I am a regular Colombo but I have not found out anything...Where do we go from here? Sometimes I think about starting a new relationship and get excited about that kind of stuff but finding someone I can spend the next 30 or 40 years with seems daunting....not to be cynical but does your W really think she found the M of her dreams? He is not tested at all. All you can do is your best and I think you have..
