I have said my piece...I have planted the seeds of "what if" and "if we only would have done or known this" And to that she will have to digest on her own....
Add to this of course all of the personal growth I have been able to experience and learn from, my new found physical and mental self, the work on GAL, 180's, and becoming grounded again in what I need and want for my own happiness...and if it is to be down the road, "our own happiness"
I'm thinking that I'm going to be OK afterall....;)
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12