You handled that very well. Of course she was angry. Remember, for all intents and purposes, she has it in her mind that she wants this divorce like, YESTERDAY! I was met with similar repsonses from my wife. I am sure that most of us were. Just stay your course, Steve. Meet her with compasion, calmness and understanding. Avoid conflict at all costs. If she says, FU....then suck it up and FO! She WILL settle down eventually. Everyone does.