Thanks advina! Both times that happened we discussed it the very next day. I sincerely apologized and communicated to her why I sent what I was sending and what I was up last about. She understood and she understands that its something I am working on it. She even said one if the difference she sees in me now is that I recognize that behavior and that I don't like it and she can tell I am sincere when I apologize. She said in the past it was all the time and I didn't even realize it was a problem. Now I see it and she can tell I see it
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it