And so the piecing begins.....

[Tryin2figuritout]

I guess I need to keep focused on the positives and not the negatives. It was so much easier before she had any interest in trying to reconcile, but I'm guessing I just didn't know or didn't prepare myself enough for the ups and downs.

A friend of mine said she thinks my wife was so full speed ahead on divorcing that when she felt unsure of that decision and started to think about us as a possibility the momentum for divorce is probably still messing her up a bit. Like the snap decision to think about us can't really work that swiftly because all that was sure was wanting a divorce.

I'm just trying to calm down and keep my emotions in check because I know whatever comes out of my emotions will not be what is needed to help our sitch. Have to keep a calm head to calm her nerves as well as mine.