Wonka... it was his business beforehand, just a different type of product. I got my licence and experience at another location, it only made sense to join in with him. It was also HIS idea to create this part of the business as a joint way that we could reconcile from a previous breakup (my doing), as a common joint force.

I see and understand your point about the lawyer. If I chose to have a business convo with h about the direction of our business, it will NOT be to fight but to listen to what his direction for it is. To hear his part vs. my part for what HE wants. I WONT keep it as a LONG discussion, or to JUMP in with what I feel is fair, etc. 10 minute convo, max.... at a time!

As for the fairness, what was his before I joined... was his. What we did together, should be split (even if slightly unequal to save in stupid fights and unecessary legal fees). His intention is to play nice thus far, as he has agreed that I am owed my salaries and for us to be mutual partners going forward. I just need to get my name on the business somehow and to also discuss a future exit strategy plan, if we should decide to desolve.

I am very skeptical with lawyers now, as I am STILL not finished my garbage with my ex-h after 22+ years...UGH!! The lawyers were the only ones who succeeded.

PON ~~~ U are lucky. One of my GOOD qualities (that I plan on keeping) is forgiveness. I forgive you and do not like for arguements to continue. So, moving forward...we are all good! smile It may have been a personal backslide, but one that H didn't get to know about!!! WHEW!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)