My H said he's happy on his own, the day he said he wants a D. He left and I was in floods of tears. I went on the internet and it soon made me dry my tears. I thought there was no turning back and no hope, but then I read this forum and ordered DB. DR is so much better IMO, especially with the goal setting. I'm waiting a few days before I evaluate the goals and carry on with the book. Doing a 180 will make you a better person, even if he decides that this is it! I think my next goal is to lose my bingo wings that I've acquired since losing weight, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
OK I'll break off all communications with H except if its about our sons. I'm still not ready to give up I'll do whatever it takes to getting my marriage back.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Joe beam and his pies? lol. Have you got a link MrBond? I agree with Mr bond, you need to work on yourself. I've started dressing nicely every day so that if my H came round he would think what's she up to? lol. It does take a lot of practice to do 180, but you'll soon get the hang of it
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I didn't know whether you meant on this forum or on another website. I did google it and found it useful I'm doing everything apart from the physical. I need to get down the gym, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Had a great and informative day my wonderful friend came with me to my consultation with a lawyer. I have a lot of things to gather before I hire the lawyer and I have to decide if I'm going to do a dissolution or file for divorce. I may even wait until H say any thing about a dissolution that he had offord to do. I have a lot of thinking to do. But not going to think about it tonight I'm at the drive in with my two sons and we are having a good time.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
