I will offer her unconditional support. Not "I'll help you if OM isn't around" or "I'll help you as long as you do this or that" but "I am here for you no matter what time of day or night, I want to help however I can." Obviously DB'ing and "going dim" is going be set aside, my focus is on helping her through and past this, the marriage is not a concern for me right now.
Busting reminded me that love is unconditional. Just don't put yourself, AS, in the position of expectation.
It is not going to be an easy road for you, but we will keep you company, if you'd like <3
