need help

[kelela]

I totally broke down and when ow called him I wanted to speak to her but he told me that he didn't want me to cause any drama and he no longer wants to be with me or fix our marriage. He loves her and he diesntvwant to looseher. she gives him everything he wants and needs like intimates and love that I didn't give to him for the last 7 years. He has a good thing going with her. And we just grew apart. I told him why couldn't he talked to me about all of this. He said cause he didn't know how to. So now with her he is more opened with her about his feelings he has learned from his mistakes with me.and no he said he doesn't want to fix our marriage he still loves me but not in lovecsuth me he liked our marriage was but there was no sex firvtge last 7 years and in a marriage you can't go that long with having sex with your spouce. That us why he is with OW now she gives him that. And now he wants me to talk to her and to tell her that our marriage is over cause she doesn't believe him that our marriage is over. And he told me if they werecto break up he still not coming back to me he said he will just be on his own. I did everything wrong here I just couldn't let go.