[quote=AnotherStander]Thank you all for the support, it's very welcome and needed! I'm sure my W's head is spinning right now, I know mine is too!
[quote] I will offer her unconditional support. Not "I'll help you if OM isn't around" or "I'll help you as long as you do this or that" but "I am here for you no matter what time of day or night, I want to help however I can." Obviously DB'ing and "going dim" is going be set aside, my focus is on helping her through and past this, the marriage is not a concern for me right now. [/quote]
This speaks volumes as to the kind of person you are!! All things aside, she should be glad for someone like you in her life. Sadly, having watched my mother succumb to lung cancer, I can say you are EXACTLY the kind of person she will find herself lucky to have. She'll realize it, eventually. And be appreciative. I hope she eventually realizes this & expresses it to you.
I sincerely do wish her the very best possible outcome!! You know the ride you're in for, and the separation was nothing in camparison.
Stay strong, you have quite the suport system here to help you work through the brutal emotions you're likely to face.
H48 M46 T26 M25 S25 D21 10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S 10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away H Done 1/13 H tells S he wants D 2/13 NO R talk since - nothing filed We live together weekends
