Well I just totally ruid the whole situation I made the biggest mistake in my life and now my marriage is completly over. I have no chance on saving my marriage now. I just could not let go. This will be my last posting on here.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013