Oh I forgot to comment. He told the kids and me he was "done" with OW and that is why she did all of those hurtful things but he "relapsed" with her a couple of weeks ago and still has contact but not sure if physical contact since that day.

Of course he didn't tell the kids that. They think he stopped and he still is having contact with her. So, he is still lying to the girls. D21 asked to see the text messages but I said no. I told her that I forwarded them to h and if he wants to show them to her it can be up to him. I want to keep the kids out of it as much as possible.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out