There is always hope I hope that we will get back together, but at the moment I am just hoping that he changes his mind about the D and waits for 2 years like I've asked him to! This is where the 180 comes into play, you asked them for something, they ignore you so you show them what it's going to be like once you're divorced by limiting contact, going dark, becoming mysterious, etc. The grounds for divorce will be something like unreasonable behaviour and seeing as you've not behaved unreasonably then you probably have a strong case. R will not come as quickly as you hoped it would do. I'm expecting it to take at least a year or maybe not ever! I feel even if you think there's no hope, you have to hold a bit of hope to keep up with the PMA and stop yourself feeling hopeless. Friends will try to tell you different, but you have to ignore the bad and listen to the good.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I hope that we will get back together, but at the moment I am just hoping that he changes his mind about the D and waits for 2 years like I've asked him to! This is where the 180 comes into play, you asked them for something, they ignore you so you show them what it's going to be like once you're divorced by limiting contact, going dark, becoming mysterious, etc.
