What a morning! Later, w says God has caused her to do what she's doing to me to prepare me for the boys teenage years. I'm going to have to learn I can't control anything. My response was, loose control of you (w) first, then the boys, then my bowels. This should be fun!
This is guilt on her part. You don't want any pressure from you making her feel this way, as it won't help her want to re-commit. Maybe next time SHE brings it up, (you don't) let her know that you understand she's not doing anything to hurt you or the kids, but instead doing what she feels she needs to do for herself right now.
Then let your PMA take over. If W sees you're ok, that will help her get through her junk. Plus, it's exactly what your kids need to see. You're doing the best you possibly can for your family right now Mtn. Know this and be proud!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
