Of course he's treating her like a princess and doing things with the kids that she always envisioned a father doing... duh!! He did not have to raise them and discipline them, teach them and care for them. Wait until those rose colored glasses get a little dirty.
LOL! Too true. I'm really puzzled by that comment because she's always told me I'm a great father. Not sure where OM was when I cut each of the umbilical cords, when I remodeled our first house to make room for another baby, when I hiked through Arkansas each year carrying the kids in my arms or on my back when they got tired, when I was coaching soccer, when I was attending every single sporting event, school awards presentation, marching band event, out-of-town contest and drill team competetion each of the kids ever had, when I was going to basketball practices and scout meetings, when I was flying kites with the kids and taking them to painting classes and taking them for motorcycle rides and taking them and their friends to movies, when I took them to the park to fly kites and R/C planes, when I trained D16 at the gym when she decided to try out powerlifting, when I helped D16 install a new stereo in her car then a week later helped D18 install one in hers, when I took them to Six Flags, etc. etc. etc. Maybe my memory is getting fuzzy, but I just don't remember looking up at ANY of those times and seeing OM's beaming, happy face, LOL! As far as I know the only thing OM has done is take S10 to a golf driving range several times (I hate golf, but I'd do it if S10 asked me to) and take them all to a drive-in movie. Maybe someday the fog will lift and W will remember. But for now this is the way she sees things and I just have to suck it up, and just complain about it here, so thanks for listening
Originally Posted By: stilllookingup
In the messages you read, did she imply or say that OM knows about her cancer?
I posted everything she said regarding the cancer, I couldn't really tell from reading it if she's told him or not. I would guess that she hasn't, because she has always been really private about things. She holds everything inside and then it just all comes pouring out at once. So she'll probably keep it bottled up a while and then just tell everyone at the same time.
